I’m a woman. So I’m no stranger to overreacting.
I mean, I’m a woman, I’m no stranger to being told I’m overreacting.
And overreacting is bad. It’s not reasonable is it. It’s not rational. Zeal is way out. Overreacting is passe. We hear things, snippets of things, small ideas or words and think these things:
- That’s a minority opinion.
- Everyone knows that’s crazy.
- They don’t mean it.
- There’s a kernel of truth.
- Listen to the other things they’re saying.
- Give them another chance.
- You didn’t hear it right.
- You’re misinterpreting.
- Maybe he’s a racist, but he’s a nice guy otherwise.
So we let behavior slide, and we let words slide because we don’t want to make a big deal out of something that is “probably nothing”. And we have been doing this, culturally, for years and we have done it most profoundly harmfully to minorities in this country.
Here’s the things I have myself though in response to racism around me:
- I don’t want to get into politics with him.
- He’s an idiot, of course he thinks that.
- This isn’t the time or place.
- I don’t know enough about this to say whether he’s wrong or right.
- I probably am overreacting.
- Maybe I’m just a bleeding heart liberal.
- I’m just too focused on the one side.
- I wasn’t there, how can I really know.
My lack of zeal is the problem. My willingness to let things slide is the problem. My stance toward casual racism is in part what contributes to an entire country having a casual approach toward racism. And it’s easy to be casually racist, because it requires you to do nothing but think and act defensively. To remind yourself when you hear about racism that
- It’s probably not how it actually went down — the media skews things in favor of minorities.
- They’re making things difficult for themselves.
- If they’d just focus on keeping their heads down and doing work this wouldn’t be a problem.
- It’s not like I have it that much easier.
This is an absence of zeal. An absence of love. An absence of empathy. This is selfishness. This is apathy. This is complacency. This is rationalizing.
I’m a good protestant. I believe in total depravity. And because I believe in this wholeheartedly, it is my job to work against it with every fiber of my being, in my own self and in the world at large.
There are too many Christians who believe in “tough love” to minorities. The old adage “pull yourselves up by your bootstraps”. They believe that minorities ought to put in a little effort and try a little harder to earn the support — financially and otherwise — from the Christian community.
This is completely against the saving grace of God and the state he found me in when he saved me.
We are not to reach out to the oppressed because they earned it, they deserve it, or they’re worth it. We are to reach out to the oppressed because we are to show the love of God to whomever we can.
Sin is easy. Sin is the natural default. Doing nothing is easy. Doing nothing is the default.
Be zealous. Be loving. Start in your small circle to take the important stance that racism in all its forms and colors is not okay. It’s sinful.
It is when the majority of people do nothing, that insanity is free to reign. This has been shown in history time and time again and in every age the human reaction is the same.
- I’m probably overreacting.
- It’s probably going to pass.
- This isn’t that big of a deal.
Please, overreact to racism. Please overreact to ideologies that inflame violence, incite hatred, and beget pain. Things pass only when we take a stand against them. Things only become unacceptable when we say they’re unacceptable.
I’m terrified of what my friends and neighbors will think of me being so passionate about this topic, isn’t that tragic? I’m afraid of what they’ll say about me.
But if I’m being totally honest, I’m more afraid of what the future will say about me if I don’t stand up and speak up for what’s right. I’m afraid for the people who will get crushed under the wheel of my apathy. I’m afraid for the people I could have helped, but didn’t because it didn’t affect me. I’m afraid of the way history will remember me if I’m okay with what’s happening now. I’m afraid of the history we’re creating because we’re unwilling to overreact.
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